Friday, 1 April 2016

☆.Flo Talks Real- That one Ex.☆

So I've been wanting to do this for the longest time, pour out my heart and get real with y'all but I felt like mayn that's TMI for my blogger fam no-one wants to know what's going on in my life.
But guys there are so many things that boggle my brain and situations I've been in that I think to myself I have to share this so this is it, the first episode of Flo Talks Real =]!

I'm here to talk about 'THAT ONE EX' which will be referred to as TOE from now on, ironic the fact that TOE is the abbreviation, seen as toes smell and so do exes.....

Seriously tho, you know TOE that you just can't get over even though it has been years, TOE who whenever they notice you're doing good and moving on suddenly decides to step back into your life and remind you that they still have your feelings in the palm of their hands, it's seriously evil!

Honestly I'm not really a fan of this whole 'Yoruba Demon' craze but boy.....when we check some guys track records and how they been treating the ladies you can definitely understand Lol. Don't get me wrong guys, us ladies have our issues too, just saying.

I recently got a message from one of my exes he was my very own Edo Demon...hehe....I would say he was my one true love (not that I can't meet another some day who knows) but literally this guy was my best friend and that was everything I wanted and looked for in a relationship.
We could talk about any and everything, didn't fight much and just genuinely enjoyed each-others company. Not like our relationship was perfect, of course as in all relationships it had some downs but overall it was great.......

Then we got to the 6 month mark when I felt like everything was going downhill, you know when you feel like you're just constantly trying with someone and not getting much in return. The honeymoon period was over and honestly I felt I was putting more effort in the relationship than him not to mention his own EX issues too *Rolls Eyes*.
Well lets fast-forward to 8 months, I gave him an ultimatum to decide whether he really wanted to be with me, and of course his answer wasn't a good one, he gave me the typical line "I don't want to get distracted, I need to focus on my career" (as If I was the one who wanted to be distracted....and didn't have a career to focus on....Oh please). So I accepted his excuse and ended the relationship.

That was like 2 years ago, yes we still kept in touch, yes we are still acquaintances, and I know what you're thinking can you really be friends with your ex? Well that's a whole other post.
Thing is, I feel like this guy just has a switch and wakes up every couple of months when he feels like 'Flo is moving on' and snaps me back closer to him. It's no joke and I know some of y'all can totally relate...It's not like I haven't had relationships after him etc.
Crazy and funny thing is as much as I am pretty much over him and don't have a weak spot for him like I used to, is it weird that secretly I always feel like there's a chance we would get back together someday and live happily every after....(yes like in the movies, no I'm not a hopeless romantic.......well maybe just a lil)....

That being said, don't dwell on past relationships. I'm a firm believer in if it's meant to be it will, but aren't exes soo annoying tho!

Well that's my experience come on people share some of yours with me or any comments you have, don't be shy ;)

Till another episode of Flo Talks Real..x

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